Are You Unintentionally Undermining Yourself With Softening Language?

If you’ve ever said:
❌ “I just wanted to check if…”
❌ “I’m no expert, but…”
❌ “Does that make sense?”
...you just might be

Women often use softening phrases to be polite, avoid conflict, or seem less “pushy.” But these words can weaken your message and make you sound unsure...without you even realizing it.

Next Level Confidence Starts Here!

What if you could flip the script?

Your words shape how you're perceived. Softening phrases might seem polite, but they can undermine your confidence and authority in meetings, emails, and negotiations. This free, high-impact guide gives you powerful, assertive alternatives so you own every conversation with clarity and confidence.

Stop apologizing. Start leading.

  • Speak with confidence and clarity in meetings

  • Send emails that command respect

  • Own your expertise without unnecessary apologies

What's Inside?

✔️ 50+ common softening phrases that make you sound hesitant (and their assertive replacements)
✔️ The psychology behind strong communication – so you’re always perceived as confident
✔️ Email & meeting scripts to help you say exactly what you mean – without over-explaining or apologizing
✔️ Instantly actionable strategies you can use in your next conversation

Why This Guide?

✔️ Instant Transformation – See a difference in how you’re perceived right away✔️ No Fluff, Just Results – A fast, easy-to-use reference guide✔️ Proven to Work – Backed by real-world leadership success

Hooray! 🎉

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Within the next minute or two, you're going to get an email from me, Erika.This email contains instructions to download 50 Softening Phrases and What to Say Instead, so be sure to check it out!But if you have any questions, don't hesitate to hit reply and let me know—I'll be happy to help! :-)

Now go and check your inbox!

P.S. If you don't find the email in your inbox in the next couple of minutes, check your spam folder...Chances are it ended up there.(Since I'm relatively new to sending emails to my list, sometimes the "email algorithms" think I'm a robot! 🤷🏾)